Intuition is our collective subdued thoughts that make us feel optimistic or pessimistic. Women has a more active intuition than men, but surprisingly, many women find it hard to use their intuition to the benefit of their relationships.

Instead, they use their intuition to dwell on vague anxieties. Keeping this sense of suspicion in your relationship might give off the wrong signals to your man. And the longer you harbor these anxieties, the higher the chance you’re on your way to a horrible breakup.

Intuition can hard to control, especially when strong emotions are involved. Women tend to be very hypersensitive whenever their men don’t feel like being romantic and thoughtful. Women’s thoughts can get clouded, leading to further negative vibes in the relationship.

Sound familiar?

Being negativistic triggers these ‘delusional thoughts’. These negativistic thoughts are often triggered by frustrations, most probably from previous relationships – grudges you still hold over men in general after past bad relationships.

Men by nature are a frustrating lot. Now, relate this with your hunches. If you are given a very stressful situation that involves your guy and your relationship, you tend to have these cloudy misconceptions. Your mind might fool you into thinking that he’s not good enough to make it work – this will understandably freak you out. And as these negative thoughts build up, any consequent display of slight indifference on his part will tick you off. Doubts will constantly bury your better opinions.

Let me enlighten you: Intuition is meant to direct you to handle these situations in a positive way. With exercise, it can give you a better grasp on how you perceive situations in your relationship. Practice how your mind should react by following these simple guidelines:

Do not be ruled predominantly with constant fear. This will not lead to a long-term relationship. If you’re afraid to do your part in moving the relationship forward, chances are he won’t stick it out for you, either.

Always keep in mind that men are careless most of the time. It’s better if you concentrate something more productive than having to nag at him for his sometimes-frustrating demeanor.

Focus your intuition on the good aspects of the relationship. Learn to trust him with your intuition. This way you avoid stress and create a more lasting bond with your man.

Practice using your intuition on mundane things like exercise plans or making a grocery list. This way, you will learn to accept your intuitions as good decisions.

Do not substitute good thoughts with bad ones. I know that bad thoughts are often your refuge because you are more comfortable dealing with it that way. But, these thoughts may deal with situations that actually don’t exist. It can keep getting worse until you’re thoroughly paranoid. This is not the ideal state of mind to be in when you are with him – it’s only good for scaring him away.

Always be open to possibilities. These may include bad or new ones. Despite me saying that you should take everything into good perspective, there are those habits that you must acknowledge with your man. Honesty between the two of you should aim at making a good relationship even better.

Finally, think ahead. Always think of building a good relationship. Don’t nurse those fears – only bad things come from those.