What is a Strategy?

Sometimes, when clients hear, "What is your strategy", there is a deafening silence on the other end of the line...

A Life of "Drahma": No Drama Queens Need Apply! A Nine Step Solution

Do you have a life full of drama and upset Do you experience a constant stream of upsetting issues...

They Are Telling You Who They Are: An Answer to Being Disappointed in Relationships

Have you ever had the experience of being mistreated by a fellow human being, causing you to become sad or depressed about it Has someone ever lied to you or cheated you, and you have afterwards felt a general distrust of everyone you meet...

Is There Something Great You’re Here to Do? Use Strategies to Create It!

Do you have a strong feeling that you have a life purpose to fulfill Do you have an inner urge to accomplish something specific with your life...

My History is No Longer My Identity: A Solution to a Painful Childhood

Did you have an abusive childhood As a child, were you the victim of sexual, verbal, or physical abuse...

The Story I Made Up: How We Let Our Fantasies Steal Happiness From Our Lives

Have you ever gotten furious at someone, causing a big scene about how wronged you were, only to find out it was some trivial misunderstanding Have you ever accused another of some transgression, only to discover later it was a miscommunication...

Money Quest: Lessons From the Millionaire Mind Intensive

I attended T Harv Eker’s Millionaire Mind Intensive...

The 5 Steps to Success with Qigong

Qigong (pronounced as chi kung) is an art that helps you to channel the energies of life related to the processes of revitalizing, healing, and strengthening. This spiritual healing system not only provides spiritual guidance but also smoothes the progress of the movement of life energy (qi called chi) through your body....

Substance Abuse Evaluations in Child Custody Cases

I make a number of assumptions when conducting a substance use evaluation as part of a litigation process: 1) the individual’s use is usually not less than the individual reports, but it might often be more (or much more); 2) inaccurate accusations of substance abuse are common because there is usually little negative consequence for inaccurate accusations; 3) the parties to the litigation, and those connected with them, may provide biased and inaccurate information...

The Amazing Power of Words

When I was growing up there was a saying, sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me. It teaches us that it doesn't matter what someone says to you. Insults are only thin air. Yet daily I counsel people who were damaged by what someone else said. Only it wasn't the words that were the cause of pain but the interpretation of those words....