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by DanTMM

I'm going to talk today about 'Achieving the Magnetic Balance' in
your interactions, dates and relationships with women.

Because each woman and situation is different, being able to
create and maintain a magnetic balance in an interaction or
relationship is something that requires plenty of practice and
real-life experience.

For example: If you are too aloof, too cold or too selfish and
don't show any feelings toward a woman, she will naturally seek
to pick up the slack elsewhere, possibly from other men.

Aim for a balance between meeting and not meeting her needs. She
will be happier for longer because there will be an ongoing
challenge/magnetism.

General rule of thumb: Don't try to be Mr. Perfect. It won't
work and is likely to backfire over time.

On the other hand, if you are too available and latch on to a
woman like a lovesick puppy, you will become predictable,
represent less of a challenge and create a 'stuck' feeling inside
of her.

So what should you do to maintain the attraction and interest of
a woman?

a)  Never latch on too tight.
b)  Never push her away too far.

Interestingly, humans are always testing and checking to see how
much or how little a person likes them by observing the other
person's body language, behaviors, actions and words.

A woman will often test to see if you've 'latched onto her', by
asking you questions like:

-  Do you like me?
-  Are we good together?
-  Have you been thinking about me?
-  Did you miss me?
-  Do you love me?
-  Do you want to be with other women?

Although women may consciously verbalize that they want a guy to
say nice things and express his feelings, doing so will diminish
the intensity of a woman's attraction for you over time.

So, give her the gift of a magnetic balance by sometimes putting
funny spins on her questions or by ignoring them altogether.

For example, if a woman asks the cliche question of "Have you
been thinking about me?" you can playfully reply with something
like...

You: Who are you again?
Woman: C'mon! I've been thinking about you... have you been
thinking about me?
You: Well, I have been thinking about how I want you to give me
a massage... I like the way you do that...and if you're good I
might just do that thing you like afterward.

Here's another way to approach it:

Her: Did you miss me?
You: You were gone? Oh, yeah I remember you!
Her: C'mon! Did you miss me?
You: Terribly! In fact, I missed you so much that...that...
Her: That what?
You: Well... so much, that I've written you a ten-page love
letter. Want me to read it to you?
Her: Hehe...umm, ok.
You: Ok, here goes...Rebecca...the feelings I have for you are
so intense...I really....really...hate you...I think we should
break up...(start laughing here).
Her: Oh! You!

Here's yet another way to approach it.

Her: Have you been thinking about me?
You: (Pause) ...Hey check this out (and then start talking about
something else e.g. what happened at work that day, a movie you
saw, etc).

The irony is that the guys who do this are the ones who get the
girls saying, "I don't know what it is about him. I just can't
stop thinking about him."

Give your woman the gift of missing you, wanting you and chasing
you. It will be worth more to her than any diamond ring,
expensive dinner or 'I love you' teddy ever will.

Dan Bacon is the CEO of TheModernMan.com who provide dating
advice for men.

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