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How To Talk With Your Partner Without Embarrassment

by Ken_Brower

In a perfect relationship in a perfect world, when the time was
right to take the relationship to the next level, one partner
would turn to the other and say, �What kind of condoms do you
prefer?� to which the other partner would respond, �You read my
mind. I was just about to ask you that.� In the real world,
things often play out a little differently. Despite the risks of
pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, it is not uncommon
for one partner to be very resistant to the use of condoms. Here
is a list of the most common reasons a sexual partner will use to
not have to sport a condom during sex and ways you can combat
their objections

�We might as well not have sex because I won�t be able to feel a
thing if I have to wear a condom.� � This has to be the most
common objection to condom use, at least amongst the women I
know. If I had a nickel for every time I had a girlfriend of mine
come up to me and tell me her new guy friend said something like
this, my student loans would have been paid up years ago. Having
been raised by a father who still keeps a firearm within arm�s
reach at all times, this excuse would have seen me walking out
the door by the time the sentence was complete; however, for
those who want to respond in a more civilized manner and continue
with the relationship, simply respond with options. You will want
to stand firm on the condom stance, but you can suggest exploring
different types of condoms (varying levels of thickness and
different lubrications) until you find one that suits you both.

�We didn�t use a condom the last two times. Why start now?� �
Ideally, you will want to be consistent with condom use, but if
you have not done so, do not simply throw in the condom towel and
throw caution to the wind. We all make mistakes, especially in
the heat of the moment. Do yourself a favor and get a full workup
of tests for STDs and then continue on with the condom use. Let
your partner know that you got caught up in the moment, but now
that you have had time to reflect, it would benefit you both to
use condoms.

�Do you not trust me?� � This is a tough one. You have asked
your partner about using condoms when having sex and he/she
immediately thinks he/she is being attacked and labeled as
somebody who would be unfaithful. Be honest and let your partner
know that you have made a strict promise with yourself to always
use condoms in all your relationships because you want to protect
yourself from pregnancy and STDs. Or you could try being humorous
and tell your partner, �Of course I trust you. But it�s possible
to have an STD and not even know it.�

Beginning a new sexual relationship is anxious enough without
that added worry that your partner refuses to wear condoms. When
it comes to your health and your well-being, you must be
unyielding in your decision to use condoms. The best you can do
is be firm, be humorous and be honest with yourself and your
partner.

For more information visit: How to Talk with Partners Resistant
to Condoms
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